Hi everyone!

I have results of interviews (one person interviewed in each household). There is information on different family members but for the rest, everyting is exaclty the same. For example:
respondent_name name_of_mem relationship_to_hhhead sex_mem
ABE-ABE, LORITA ABE-ABE, LORITA other relative Female
ABE-ABE, LORITA DE GRACIA, FRECHIE THERESE Son/Daughter Female
ABE-ABE, LORITA DE GRACIA, TERESITA Head Female

So respondent_name is the same but the name of member varies. I am trying to reshape into wide form to have information of family members as attributes of the respondent name.

I used the command:

reshape wide relationship_to_hhhead sex_mem age_hhmem, i( respondent_name) j( name_of_mem) string

Stata says then (note j = ... (listing all my members name) ) , not allowed
what does the " , not allowed" mean? What am I doing wrong?

Thank you for your answers!!
Chloé