Using panel data, I'd like to measure the effect of life satisfaction in couples on generated wealth. To date, I've been using a variable that measures the difference in the level of life satisfaction between partners in which I take the absolute difference
Code:
gen byte satdiff = abs(losat1 - losat2)
Where 'losat' ranges from 0 (completely dissatisfied) to 5 (neither disatisfied/satisfied) to 10 (completely satisfied) and '1' refers to male, '2' refers to female.

However, the difference variable does not take account of couples in which both parters were completely dissatisfied so I want to take account of the effect of both the level and difference in life satisfaction in couples. I have tried including both the level and difference variables in the regression (c.losat1 c.losat2 and satdiff), but in doing so, the difference variable is no longer significant - potentially due to being correlated with the level variables. Ideas appreciated.

Code:
xtreg c.wealth2r i.at3 c.hgage1 c.hgage2 c.satdiff c.lincr
Data sample:
Code:
* Example generated by -dataex-. To install: ssc install dataex
clear
input float wealth2r byte at3 int(hgage1 hgage2) byte(losat1 losat2 satdiff) float incr
1070211.4 0 37 38  6  9 3  100396.3
 877808.4 0 55 41  6  6 0 101745.04
 20581.24 0 22 19  8  8 0 11889.035
1235545.5 0 57 55  9  7 2  163804.5
 706076.6 0 34 33  8  9 1  20475.56
  43163.8 0 36 34  8  6 2  46235.14
 231907.5 0 52 50  5  7 2  40026.42
241455.73 0 45 47  7  7 0 154198.14
 428661.8 0 44 50  9  6 3 123117.56
 85898.28 0 35 34  6  5 1  64729.19
 5200.792 0 30 27  8  7 1  50858.65
137582.56 0 34 33  9  8 1  81638.04
 813474.2 0 57 54  9  6 3  138705.4
 170805.8 0 26 23  8  9 1 121532.36
 567063.4 0 49 44  9  9 0 127381.77
 44696.17 0 37 28  3  5 2  51630.12
  2583231 0 60 53  9  9 0 116248.34
 99077.94 0 37 31  6  7 1  85865.26
2716578.5 0 40 36  7  8 1  524001.3
131933.94 0 27 27  8  8 0 123972.26
 98414.79 0 46 39  6  4 2  57595.77
 94433.29 0 32 30  7  9 2  94731.84
 98857.33 0 21 21  8  9 1 16512.549
 415455.7 0 41 35  9 10 1  37384.41
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